"If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind. If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn’t follow through on little things, he will do same for big things. Be aware of this and realize that he’s okay with disappointing you. Don’t be with someone who doesn’t do what they say they’re going to do. If he’s choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn’t respect your feelings and needs. “Busy” is another word for “asshole.” “Asshole” is another word for the guy you’re dating. You deserve a fucking phone call." - Greg Behrendt  (via c-oquetry)

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"Walking away is a brave thing. Don’t try to hold onto the past, it will only make you bitter. Even if he loved you once before, his love for you is different now and you deserve so much more. It’s not okay to love someone who hurts you. I can see the pain inside your eyes, it’s consuming you. You are capable of love and being loved by someone else. But, make sure you love yourself first. Don’t let him define who you are. You are beautiful, with or without him. You might not see this now but, you’ll be just fine. Let him go. Walk away. I promise, you’ll be alright." - Words I Wish Someone Had Said To Me // by c-oquetry (via c-oquetry)

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"If people want to let you go, just let them do it. They may not understand who you are. So don’t play around with fire; don’t give them their cake and let them eat it too. Here is your rule of thumb: they either commit to you or get none of you." - Joey Furjanic, The Heartbreak Hotel: How Long Will You Stay? (via c-oquetry)

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"Marry your best friend. I do not say that lightly. Really, truly find the strongest, happiest friendship in the person you fall in love with. Someone who speaks highly of you. Someone you can laugh with. The kind of laughs that make your belly ache, and your nose snort. The embarrassing, earnest, healing kind of laughs. Wit is important. Life is too short not to love someone who lets you be a fool with them. Make sure they are somebody who lets you cry, too. Despair will come. Find someone that you want to be there with you through those times. Most importantly, marry the one that makes passion, love, and madness combine and course through you. A love that will never dilute - even when the waters get deep, and dark." - (via c-oquetry)

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Whenever you look at me,
it’s like I’m about to have a fucking
heart attack. Your eyes. Your eyes
always get to me and I don’t
know what is it about them that do,
but they manage to do something
to my stomach that I suddenly have
the urge to double over in whelm.
I hate it, when you gaze over me. But
at the same time, j’aime quand tu
regardes moi.

"I’ll never be perfect
I’ll never be cool
I’ll always be noting
unless I’m with you
cos you make me perfect
tell me what can i do
the pieces are missing
when I’m not with you"
- (via s-h-i-t-h-a-pp-e-n-s)

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Reblog if you actually give a shit about anyone who’s suicidal or depressed.

no one should scroll past this

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It’s not that I don’t love you. It’s the sound I heard when I was 9 and my father slammed the front door so hard behind him I swear to god it shook the whole house. For the next 3 years I watched my mother break her teeth on vodka bottles. I think she stopped breathing when he left. I think part of her died. I think he took her heart with him when he walked out. Her chest is empty, just a shattered mess or cracked ribs and depression pills.

It’s not that I don’t love you. It’s all the blood in the sink. It’s the night that I spent 12 hours in the emergency room waiting to see if my sister was going to be okay, after the boy she loved, told her he didn’t love her anymore. It’s the crying, and the fluorescent lights, and white sneakers and pale faces and shaky breaths and blood. So much blood.

It’s not that I don’t love you. It’s the time that I had to stay up for two days straight with my best friend while she cried and shrieked and threw up on my bedroom floor because her boyfriend fucked his ex. I swear to god she still has tear streaks stained onto her cheeks. I think when you love someone, it never really goes away.

It’s not that I don’t love you. It’s the six weeks we had a substitute in English because our teacher was getting divorced and couldn’t handle getting out of bed. When she came back was smiling. But her hands shook so hard when she held her coffee, you could see that something was broken inside. And sometimes when things break, you can’t fix them. Nothing ever goes back to how it was. I got an A in English that year. I think her head was always spinning too hard to read any essays.

It’s not that I don’t love you. It’s that I do.

- It’s not that I don’t love you.  (via extrasad)

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I think suicide would be the best way to die, you’re dying on your own terms, not somebody else’s. You get to say goodbye to your loved ones, even if it’s just in a letter or video. You win a game you were supposed to lose. 


Fuck tumblr for always glorifying suicide.

Let’s break this fucking post down. You’d better hit that readmore button, I stg.

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"We all have issues & we have usually come by them honestly." - ― Allan Lokos (via psych-quotes)

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"I wish I would die.
I’ve thought those words many times. But it’s a hard thing to say out loud. It’s even scarier to feel you might mean it."
- Jay Asher; Thirteen reasons why (via personaldem0n)

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"Often the people who are hardest to love are the ones who need it the most." - (via ohlovequotes)

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emotional abuse is when someone does something to hurt you, and when you express your feelings, that you’re upset, they turn it around to be something you did to hurt them and they force you to apologize for it, and your feelings, like always, are rendered invalid and silenced, forever damaging the ability to trust others with your feelings because they always are used against you.

this is important because so many people don’t know this

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"It shouldn’t take so much silence for you to hear the sound of my heart breaking." - S.
Reality (via seven-seas-apart)

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